“Many people struggle to strike the balance between confidence and arrogance, instead adopting an overly modest approach, but that rarely works.Who wants to go out with someone who describes themselves as shy and introverted? “It’s no surprise to see that both men and women are looking for someone whose honest and confident, but there are some interesting differences between the sexes.In terms of how people described themselves, you’re most likely to stumble across a man who’s honest (10%), intelligent (9%) and confident (8%), while women are honest (9%), sexy (8%) and intelligent (7%).Interestingly, many men (4%) like women who describe themselves as curvy, but only 0.6% of women describe themselves in this way.With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years.We’re always more than happy to talk about Illicit – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about Sara at this moment in time.
Fortunately, more women are realizing the flaw in these beliefs.If you’re a woman, then the key words to include on your profile are “sexy”, “honest” and “confident” as 15%, 10% and 7% of men respectively are after these traits more so than anything else.In the meantime, stay well clear of describing yourself as shy (2%), trustworthy (1%) and, oddly enough, happy (0.3%).This is a big reason why younger men find older women so attractive.Remember that you have a great deal to offer any man worthy of your attention, whatever his age may be.