This young woman actually had a long-term boyfriend she had not told Alex about. The young woman chose to explain her way out of the cheating by saying Alex had raped her at the party. Alex was one of the kindest, most gentle souls I had ever met, and he was excited about this new lady.Alex was happy someone had come into his life to make him feel good about himself again.He had to live in shitty motels because he was no longer allowed to live with his family, due to the fact that there were young children in the family home (his daughter and his nieces).He was not allowed to see his young daughter or his nieces for an entire year.What if you are homeless and you have no where else to urinate except for — who forgets a lot of stuff. Not to mention , to ruin a kid’s life over something like this? OF COURSE NOT, but this is what we are doing as a society.If these two individuals get caught with that picture in their phones, no matter how innocuous the intent may have been between two young people who do not have any understanding of the current laws that are in place, they can be branded as sex offenders. Should they be reprimanded and punished in some way so that they learn their lesson? I have two sons, trust me, I have talked THAT THEY DON’T REALLY MEAN BECAUSE THEIR BRAINS ARE STILL DEVELOPING — BUT DON’T DO IT — EVER. Your very first thought is probably, “Are you out of your fucking mind of COURSE I wouldn’t!!
The email described an event that had happened in Jacob’s life over 20 years ago.
stuffpoint.com, “Alice Returns.” Sometimes when you meet people, you have a decision to make. Do you let them further into your life, do you go down the rabbit hole with them? However — you can be branded as a sex offender for life for urinating in public.
It’s like Alice right before she goes down the rabbit hole. You can live next to a convicted murderer and never even know it — but the same is not true with a convicted sexual offender, no matter how benign or unjust their conviction may have actually been.
All I would ask is to just be willing to listen, …Let’s continue. We began messaging and realized that we kinda liked each other. Our communications moved from messaging online to texting and then to talking on the phone.
Everything was going great, and we had an amazing connection.