Corbis Although this might seem like the last one, it is nothing like it.
Somehow “having a thing” for Black women has a completely different connotation to it.
You might be wondering, “Will we have anything in common? Unfortunately, sometimes that plan fails miserably because some of these White men can’t help but keep reminding you that you are Black and they are White.
It’s not that they do it on purpose, but it’s just that sometimes make certain comments that can seem annoying or even inappropriate.
i Stock For some reason, White men often feel the need to re-assure us that they love women outside of their race, but if you’re already on a date with me, isn’t obvious you like women outside of your race? There is no need to waste time re-assuring me of this.
Image Source: Sometimes White men will go on and on about their Black friends thinking that it will somehow impress you.
It sounds like you have some sort of fetish for Black women and want to use me for some nasty fantasy you have in your mind.
Statements like this are an immediate turn off for me.
Image Source: Generally speaking, it’s not a good idea to get into a deep discussion about politics on a first date, but for some reason, White men will sometimes want to know what you think about certain popular issues concerning African Americans.
Don’t take this the wrong way, it’s not that I mind discussing it, but I just feel like these issues shouldn’t be the first things you think of when we go for a first date.