It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. Above all else, I believe that the reason why we settle for someone suboptimal is because we believe we aren’t deserving of more. You don’t deserve to be mistreated or taken advantage of ever! Life isn’t worth living if there’s nobody special to share it with.In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. You deserve to have someone love you back as much as you love them. I’d rather be a median waged person with a loved one than be a lonely billionaire in the long run.What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change?If you hate your job, get laid with a nice severance check in hand!
Unfortunately, no matter how hard she tries, she can’t teach a gorilla how to put down the toilet seat, pay for dinner, and write her sweet notes of nothing.
She’s afraid other women will be all over him, which will seriously stress her out. It’s the friendship that we cherish more of, not the sexual activities, the older we get.
She’s also afraid as she grows older, he’ll stop wanting to be with her. Not wanting to be with the hottest and nicest woman possible is hard for men to understand.
Society always sees men as losers, and women as misguided. Read the 175 comments so far on this post with fascinating perspective from both men and women.
One of the best excuses women tell me for not wanting to be with an attractive guy who has all she wants is that she’s afraid she won’t be able to hang on to him.