When people nervous – they’re starting to unconsciously mirror our physical state.
There’s no doubt about it, being a male model definitely makes Tinder easier.
You’ll appear more thoughtful, conveying that you’re paying attention to what she’s saying rather than just waiting for your turn to talk. Behavior that may be welcome in the right context – touching, for example – can be creepy under different circumstances.
In reality, you’re giving yourself more breathing room so you don’t accidentally blurt out something about how much you’ve been staring at her lips… Making a risqué or even potentially offensive joke can likewise be either something welcome or threatening depending on circumstance and context.
of people – mostly the socially inexperienced – who worry about being called “creepy” by women and having it destroy their entire lives.
Because, as we all know, all women everywhere are connected to a powerful underground information sharing network, thus ensuring that anyone saddled with the “creeper” label shall never have sex again… But I understand the fear; most people don’t want to come across as creepy and worry about accidentally ruining an interaction with someone they’re attracted to.