However, children are more likely to take a shine to the new amour if you make them feel as though they come first.
Look each of your children in the eye and let them know they could not have caused the divorce, nor could they have prevented it. Fortunately, I divorced someone who cared about the kids as much as I did. They have to deal with their mother’s venom, their father shirking responsibility, and discomfort caused by accommodating you as you enter their lives. Well…Your step-kids are getting it from all sides, but they’re going to be taking it all out in one place: on you.If he really had raped a whole cheerleading squad, it might have been a different story.Let the kids know there is a zero possibility of your getting back together with the ex.